January 24, 2007

I typing this on my Word program since my internet service has expired so they tell me even though I paid for 2 mos. I am currently trying to unscramble this current snafu. You know living with a cell phone only and then having to call providers to solve problems becomes an issue real quick. I only have free minutes after 9 p.m. and on weekends and holidays. You can’t call these businesses then. You get put on hold and soon the minutes add up. I went over last month. Not because I used the phone for fun calls to my loved ones during the week but because I sat on hold several times trying to straighten out a problem.

I started on the Nutra System diet three weeks ago. I haven’t lost much weight so far. I returned the food to them this morning. It is awful! If you like MRE’s (meals ready to eat), you might enjoy their food. The worst thing was the “flame grilled burger”. When you open the package, it is a dried out looking thing that reminded me of something a child would have in their play kitchen. You are instructed to soak it in boiling water for a few minutes. I soaked and soaked and it never got any better than a drowned dried out cardboard patty. This dieting is not for this old crone. One thing it did accomplish though, is I have lost my appetite for large amounts of food. That is a good thing! I also don’t crave sugar any longer. So I guess all was not lost.

We played golf last week on a small par 3 course. I hadn’t played since last August. I surprised myself with some decent shots. Then I remembered why I was hitting better. Last August my thumb was very painful as was my shoulder. I had the thumb injected in November and my shoulder has healed itself. Now I am hitting the ball more like I used to 20 years ago. I shot a 41 - I am happy. We are going to play again this Wednesday too.

Looks like rain on Thursday. Our bike club was to go to Santibel Island. You never know here. The weather just may pass over and we will have our usual sunshine and cool breeze. Speaking of breezes. We moved Bearfoot IV over to the other side of the street so she is facing west now. We have shade and cool breezes on our patio now. My plants are not burning up nor are we. It is so pleasant outside that we actually entertained 4 of our neighbors for supper the other night. There is nothing like dining al fresco under lamp light. This is the Florida I love. We have had spectacular weather since Dec. 1st.

I have made a personal vow to ride 100 miles each week on my bike. I will have to make it up this week since I didn’t ride today due to the high winds out of the south. I just don’t do well riding in the wind. Tomorrow I ride with the club. Hopefully we will ride 18 or so. I feel so much better when I am physically fit even with this extra poundage I am carrying around. Tonight is dancing lessons and the first part is line dancing for the bikers. We bikers never get to take line dancing lessons because we bike as a group on the same days. We went last week but didn’t stay long.

I repotted my dad’s plants that I have had for several years. Sebastian forced me to do it since he wrapped his rope around the pot and broke it. I have 3 planters full of Snake plants now. They are short but now that they have room perhaps they will grow tall like the ones I used to have that I put in one of my paintings.

I will post a couple of photos from my bike ride on Sunday up to Bonita Beach and northward. Note how deserted the beach is for a Sunday afternoon. We won’t see that in Feb. Stay well, warm and in joy-

January 15, 2007

Tax day for us estimated tax payers. Due to Martin Luther King Jr. Day, the payment is not due 'til tomorrow. We are disappointed - today was the day to have photos taken for the Lake San Marino resident directory. I dressed Ralph, myself and Sebastian (who had just been groomed) in blue thinking we would make a lovely picture. Not so! Sebastian was too large to be held high enough so it was just Ralph and I. To top it off, the photo is in black and white. So much for creativity.

We are going to a pot luck tonight at the community center. Ralph is beginning to feel more energetic. Thanks be to God! It has been a long haul for him to get back on his feet. We hope to dance a little tonight too. It is more likely me who wants to dance.

I wanted to share something with my readers that I read on Sunday as I attended the Kirkin' O' the Tartan at the First Presbyterian Church in Bonita Springs. Kirkin' in gaelic means church. Since the Presbyterian church as part of the reformed movement in Scotland initially, they celebrate their roots in this manner. All the flags of the various clans are paraded into the church and displayed while a fabulous group of bagpipers play. My spirit just soared. I had spirit bumps all over my body as the pipers and drummers played. The following is an excerpt from the Choral Anthem that I found so appropriate for todays world:

Fears and doubts too long have bound us; free our hearts to faith and praise. Grant us wisdom, grant us courage, for the living of these days. Cure thy children's warring madness, bend our pride to thy control; shame our wanton selfish gladness, rich in things and poor in soul. Grant us wisdom, grant us courage, lest we miss thy kingdom's goal. This is a portion of a hymn by Hal H. Hopson.

I was energized and needed more music. That led me downtown to Cambier park for the Naples Concert Band in the bandshell. They performed several marches which I love as well as Gershin and some jazz. What a lovely day I had.

We are moving Bearfoot IV to a new spot one street over right behind where we are now but we will be facing West rather than East. Our awning comes out over a large slide room and therefore is very high. Almost useless actually. As we sit now we have the full sun blazing on the awning side of the coach, or patio side all day. When we turn around, we will have some shade from the coach itself allowing us to use the patio. Luckily, our friends live on both of these streets.

I am going to begin some healing work on one of my neighbors next week. She actually went out and bought a massage table for me to use in our sessions. I have also just developed a new modality all my own. It is called the Magic of Vibrational Energy or M.O.V.E. I will be reviewing, repairing and aligning client's energy systems to their Highest Potential and then offering various plant essences to be taken daily that will assist them in staying in alignment (health) longer. As it is now, clients tend to fall back in their old habits and thoughtforms within a few days. With the assistance of the plants which God provided for our healing, they will be more apt to make those changes in their lives which support their health and wellness, spiritually, mentally and physically. I am excited to begin a new path from my former healing practice and will keep you posted.

In love and health -

January 10, 2007

I can't believe I haven't been on this site for ten days. Times flys when------. I can't acutally say I have been having lots of fun. Ralph had some surgery on his nasal sinus. He seemed fine for a day and a half afterwards, then at 4 a.m. he wakened me. It seems he was hemmoraging heavily. Since this was due to surgery and coming from deep within his nose, it could not be stopped by the usual nosebleed first aid. That became apparent within 15 mins. We are a few miles from the hospital and I don't drive well at night especially with a bleeding man in the car so I called 911. The monster fire truck plus ambulance arrived within a couple of minutes. I ran outside in my barefeet and nightdress to flag them down. Ralph was able to walk out and climb onto the stretcher by himself. I was shocked when one of the firemen came over to me and as he squeezed my nostrels together tightly, he said this is the way you stop a nosebleed. I don't respond well when shocked into silence like that. His behavior was very unprofessional and unkind. To top it off, the EMT's stuck a clip on the end of Ralph's nose for the trip to the hospital. Naturally, everything backed up and was most unpleasant. I had told them this was a post-op case and not an ordinary nosebleed. After 3 hours of cleaning the motorhome, I drove down to the ER to find Ralph. They ended up packing his nose with a baloon type gauze thing. We hung around for several hours to see if he was going to be ok. For several days afterward, he had nasty headaches and just did not feel well at all. Now it seems he is on the mend.

We did manage to go dancing on New Year's Eve before the surgery. We had a great time at the party. Neither one of us has been out on New Year's Eve for many years. My favorite evenings have been spent with my grandkids while their parents went out. We would have pizza, popcorn, sparkling grape juice for our toast (which we generally had at 10 a.m. since they couldn't stay awake 'til midnight). We had dips and snacks and played long games of Monopoly. I hope they remember those times as fondly as I do. I miss my family everyday while I am away from them. It is just a deep emptiness in my heart.

My sister and brother-in-law are here now. We went to the 3rd Avenue celebration downtown one evening with two other couples. I was kind of a fifth wheel since Ralph couldn't go but I did enjoy the music, watching them boogie and of course, the ice cream. I posted some pics of that event. Then we went to Cambier Park on sunday to hear a big band. The day was glorious and the music great. Bash and Rosie went too. (they are cousins) I have been biking as much as possible. I had a near wreck right in the middle of the intersection of Wiggins Pass and 41. We were crossing as a group when my chain just blew apart and began whip lashing everywhere. I was lucky. Ended up buying a new chain but not new gears. It has made me cautious about standing up though. The guy who fixed it jokingly said, "You have been racing again haven't you?".

I have a pot of parsley and basil growing profusely on my picnic table. I also have a deep pink geranium out side my door. I can't get away from growing things. I took the Christmas decorations down and brought the palm tree inside on the dashboard. Looks great at night in the window.

Happy New Year 2007

We went out for a New Year's Eve Party last night here at the community center. It was a gala affair. Ralph and I had not been out for New Year's eve in many years. We headed home a little after mid-night. We both won door prizes. I couldn't believe it since I have rarely ever won anything in my life. We were surrounded by family and friends who arrived yesterday or within the last few days. There is a major shuffle in the park at this time. Many people were here for just the month of December while those that are coming in now are here for a longer period. One point about this kind of life is that the people you greet in the morning as you go for your walk, may not be there tomorrow. We are a mobile society. The face of the street changes quite often.

It feels very good for me to have my sister and brother-in-law just across the street. Even though I made friends with my closest neighbors for the last month, I was lonely for family. My neighbors were from Quebec, Canada. I have enjoyed visiting with them and learning from them.

My neighbors now are from Ohio and Nova Scotia, Michigan and Missouri. Quite a cross culture of people but we all share the love of travel.

I took all my Christmas decorations down tday and put up my palm tree. Ralph says it looks like the beach now on the dash. Quite tacky and wonderful from both inside and outside at night. I left the Christmas wreath on the side of the door though. I am thinking of making a shell wreath to hang there now. The man behind me from Germany is remaking antique lampshades. They are exquiste. I also feel the desire to pull out my paints and work on a couple of projects I have had in mind for sometime.

Time to get serious about dropping the weight I have gained in the last year. Lots of padding that is no longer needed.

I guess some of my thoughts in this post sound like resolutions. Hmmmmmm!

Be well, happy, peacefilled, prosperous and creative.

December 29, 2006

As we close this year, I would like to leave you with a message. Although you may feel it pertains to women, I feel it also emcompasses men.

Drawing Water From The Well

I went down to the well, like Leah and Rachel, like Miriam and Rebecca. The women of the old testament were always meeting at wells. Things were welling up inside of them, inside of me. I was looking for women with whom I could draw water - quench my thirst, cleanse my soul, mirror even a reflection of myself. Who was I? Certainly more than this empty space, this longing, this searching. Like an empty cup, a chalice perhaps, waiting to be filled. I long to bear the libation, a sacrament we raise to our lips. Let us taste the communion.

We are all sometimes women alone, waiting for this chance to come together. It is a marking point on the mythic map of our journey. We have wakened to the calling for something deeper, something we call up from the earth, from our bodies. As women we find ourselves rooted in our bodies. We can't escape them, so we embrace them. This is the beginning, when we turn inward to draw up water from the well. We will meet at the Source.

I will also close with this quote from E.B. Browning -

"With stammering lips and insufficent sounds, I strive and struggle to deliver right the music of my nature".

And Anais Nin said, "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

Have a Blessed New Year,
Donna

Day after Christmas

Hello dear readers! I hope your Christmas celebrations or other Holiday celebrations were all that you had expected. We missed our families a great deal but spoke with almost all of them on the phone. Maybe next year we can remedy the situation in some manner. We did enjoy a fine turkey dinner at the community center here in the park with our neighbors. Ralph and I were seated at a table with 12 others who were all french canadians. They are all bilingual to a degree which is a good thing since we (shamefully) are not. We enjoyed ourselves very much. Ralph made rye rolls which were a huge success and he is now being pursued by several french ladies to provide the recipe. Conversation, laughter, good wine and good food crossed any cultural barriers there were. We now have many new friends and invitations to come north across the border.

I now have WiFi at the coach since I spent a few bucks and had my pc repaired. The Apple will not work here. It is so much better. Now I can be more creative - Look Out! I will try to post some pics. I have taken some new ones but seem to be slowing down in the photograph department which is unlike me. Please note the picture of my new Christmas present from Ralph. I have wanted one of these very tacky palm trees for a couple of years. My dad would be proud of me. We, my sis, my brother and me, come by our desire for tacky lawn ornaments genetically through our dad. He was a master at many things but one special gift he passed to us was the desire to put up tacky lights. This palm will ride with us now and be displayed in the large windshield of Bearfoot IV everywhere we park. We do need a sign too. We will work on that this summer at the Island where all the tools are.

We just returned from a bike trip in the rain. It started out cloudy but soon the clouds became one big black one and down it came. It was a cold rain so we hustled back but did manage to get in 10 miles. The sun is out now and it is lovely but I still have my sweats on warming my muscles.

December 21, 2006

I have a nice surprise! I am posting from Bearfoot IV at Lake San Marino. I took my computer to a nearby shop and they fixed it. Seems my graphics card was not seated properly. I also bought a fan pad for it as it runs too hot. My current problem is trouble with the mail program through the WiFi server here at the park. But I can pick up mail on my web browser. I expect to spend sometime with the techs on the phone.

I biked this morning with 17 other souls for 17 miles and much of the time we pushed strong winds. I am tired but feel as though I really pushed myself physically. That is a good thing. Ralph is not going with us until after the first of the year. He and I bike around the park plus we walk a couple of miles with Sebastian. I am listening to Santana as I type this. Brings back many memories. Our group had two flat tires this morning so we were held up for awhile.

Ralph and I plan to play golf next week. He wants to find a place to rent a kayak so we can go together. I think that would be something he could do without becoming too winded. I hope he can join us in the biking soon. I have gotten used to riding behind his broad back.

We will be having Christmas dinner here with others in the community center. We both miss our families very much. This is the first time for both of us to not be with some family. But we have a great meal planned. It is a full house of probably over a 100 people. The park furnishes the turkey and fixin's while each table provides different dishes for their table. I think there are 14 at a table. Our table is mostly french speaking people which should be an international experience. We are bringing a large mixed green salade (note the french). I know that much. We may bring some "pain" which is bread too if Ralph decides to make some. It is going to rain off and on here for the next few days. It is very warm and lovely so it really doesn't matter.

I will write more and perhaps post some pics. Most of my pics are on ralph's Apple. Blessings to all readers.

December 21, 2006

I have a nice surprise! I am posting from Bearfoot IV at Lake San Marino. I took my computer to a nearby shop and they fixed it. Seems my graphics card was not seated properly. I also bought a fan pad for it as it runs too hot. My current problem is trouble with the mail program through the WiFi server here at the park. But I can pick up mail on my web browser. I expect to spend sometime with the techs on the phone.

I biked this morning with 17 other souls for 17 miles and much of the time we pushed strong winds. I am tired but feel as though I really pushed myself physically. That is a good thing. Ralph is not going with us until after the first of the year. He and I bike around the park plus we walk a couple of miles with Sebastian. I am listening to Santana as I type this. Brings back many memories. Our group had two flat tires this morning so we were held up for awhile.

Ralph and I plan to play golf next week. He wants to find a place to rent a kayak so we can go together. I think that would be something he could do without becoming too winded. I hope he can join us in the biking soon. I have gotten used to riding behind his broad back.

We will be having Christmas dinner here with others in the community center. We both miss our families very much. This is the first time for both of us to not be with some family. But we have a great meal planned. It is a full house of probably over a 100 people. The park furnishes the turkey and fixin's while each table provides different dishes for their table. I think there are 14 at a table. Our table is mostly french speaking people which should be an international experience. We are bringing a large mixed green salade (note the french). I know that much. We may bring some "pain" which is bread too if Ralph decides to make some. It is going to rain off and on here for the next few days. It is very warm and lovely so it really doesn't matter.

I will write more and perhaps post some pics. Most of my pics are on ralph's Apple. Blessings to all readers.

December 14, 2006

today is my youngest daughter's birthday. Seems like just yesterday she was born. I remember I didn't feel like doing any Christmas shopping or card writing that year. She was actually due on the 24th. Everything was let go 'til the last minute. We had time immediately after she was born and we were home. But it was very hurried. She slept in her little bassinet in the livingroom while the other three children played their new record player full volume. We were in our unfinished living room at that time but had managed to put up a tree. There wasn't any finished floor in there just subfloor which in our case was planks. We heated our house with a wood stove in the basement and the heat radiated up through the cracks in the flooring which grew larger as they dried out. We had a large sheet of plastic between the kitchen and the livingroom since the livingroom was still "in process". I look back and I marvel since we had our last two children while trying to live in our house which we were building by ourselves. What energy we had back then and how we struggled to make a life for our 4 little children and ourselves.

We are having a cloudy day today. A few showers but nothing substantial yet. Tomorrow maybe! We need rain here. I did bike this morning with the club. Ralph has not been feeling well. He had some tests done this morning. He tried twice to ride with the club but felt poorly and had to quit. I hope this new cardiologist can get him straightened out. We met the new doctor on Monday and liked him very much. He thinks it is Ralph's meds that are creating the problems. Hopefully he will be back on track here soon.

Miracles are happening all around me. I am grateful for each and everyone. I forgot who it was who said, "Expect Miracles." I think it was actually Jesus Christ. I don't take them for granted but I do expect them.

I had an identity theft problem with my online banking accounts. Thankfully, Wachovia's fine Fraud division picked it up before any money was taken. But I had to change all my accounts. What a hassle that is. But I have notified nearly everyone who gets paid automatically from my account. I think I will be changeing my email address too after all these years with the same one. I feel violated and think that now the thieves have my email address, I don't trust the internet. Best to change the whole thing now. One good thing is it will eliminate the junk mail at least for the time being. I will keep you all posted when I change it.

December 7 2006

Just sat down at a coffee shoppe to post this blog after 2 hours of arduous shopping. I buy nearly all Gift Cards but even with that I am exhausted. I am the Quarter Horse of shopping, good for a quick sprint. Definitely not the Thoroughbred type of shopper who can shop all day. I think it would be a great idea to have a Gift Card store where one could go to buy all the major stores cards in one stop location. But enough of my jibber jabber ( I have had one too many Chai teas). Here are some photos of the tacky lights in our park plus one of our tree in Bearfoot's windshield plus the sunrise in Lake San Marino where I am lucky enough to live for 4 mos. Enjoy!

December 5, 2006

A cloudy and cooler day today here in Naples. We used it to advantage by washing the coach. A big job. Ralph washed it with an extension brush while I wiped it dry from the ladder. My arms and shoulders are complaining about the activity but I feel it is good conditioning for my kayaking muscles. I just bought a large dark pink geranium to hang from the wrought iron hook I have stuck in the ground by the door. I think the Christmas decorations I have put up so far look really nice. I left the tree on all night last night. Sebastian and I both go for haircuts tomorrow. Amen! We are both on the same schedule except my hair is cleaner than his. He is like a kid when I brush him. He twists and pulls away in protest. I have to put a headlock on him to do his beard.

We were to go on our first bike trip this a.m. but we decided that old north wind was a'blowin to strongly plus we needed to finish cleaning the coach. Now we think of waxing it. I sent a lovely box of FL oranges to my grandson who is preparing for exams at V.T. He will need all that quick brain energy.

It has been unseasonally hot here but is now normal in the low to mid 70's. I took our quilt off the bed and just had a fleece blanket until last night. But we still sleep with the windows open.
I am forced to post at Calistoga's since we are unable to pick up the wireless signal at the park. I think the Airport card in the Apple is getting weaker. We don't have an Apple store nearby either so it means going to Miami I guess.

We had about 50 people at church services last sunday. We sing many of the old hymns. Many of them remind me of my mother and of my childhood. Poignant memories. There are lots of Canadians here now for the month since it is cheaper for them to come in Dec. We are enjoying getting to know them.

Stay well, be happy and in health dear friends and family.

add'l pics

Photos Nov. '06

Photos Nov. '06

November 30, 2006

This is a post from the trip down when I didn't have wireless service. But here it is: will post again for today on a different page.
Land of Spanish Moss, pink hibiscus and early morning mists on
the river. Yes, we arrived in Hilton Head, S.C. yesterday noon time. This is one of my favorite places to be. I feel alive and renewed in this climate. Now going out into the traffic is another matter altogether. It seems to get worse each year. But for now, we are tucked safely and quietly away in an rv resort and marina on the river. We are directly across the river from the Pinckney Island Wildlife Reserve. If I had more time here, I would pull Namaskar off the kayak rack and launch her here. Our plan is to purchase another kayak so Ralph can join me on my adventures into the marshlands. For now, we must be content with a long walk on the beach today with our friends who live here year round. They are way down on the southern tip of the Island in Sea Pines Plantation. That is the toe of the shoe. This island is shaped like a shoe or a boot. Sea Pines requires a permit to enter and is one of the favored places to live and play golf.

We left Ashland, VA the day after Thanksgiving after much to do. We were delayed from getting an early start due to mistakes on our part. But finally loaded with kayak and bikes, ladders and dog we were off to parts southern. We had lovely weather and each drove so the trip didn’t seem as long. We made it to Florence, SC over 320 miles and found shelter for the night in a Coast to Coast park. We were very tired when we pulled off I 95 and the directions to the park said it was only 200 yds from the ramp. All we saw was a gas station on the left and a road curving off to the right. Well, we drove right up to a “Wrong Way” sign for I 95. What a revolting development that is! Luckily there was room on the grass to make a partial U turn to get this monster back on the ramp but headed north once again. Eight miles later, we found an exit and turned around for the return trip of 8 miles to do it again. In the meantime, I called for further instructions and discovered that all their signs had been blown apart by a storm and that they were further down the road than the map had said. All was made well but the level of frustration was off the gauge for awhile.
We had a nice thanksgiving day dinner with my family although we missed my grandson who was marching in the parade with the Highty Tighties in Philly. We had more food than we could eat but it tasted so good. We had loaded the kayak from my dear friends house and dropped my car off there for storage on our way to dinner. It was cold and raw. We watched old movies all afternoon. It was a pleasant break for me away from football.

I took pics this morning and will post them. May you all have a lovely Sunday.

November 17, 2006

We left Albany, NY this a.m. at 8:30 under cloudy skys. Now it is 3 p.m. and we are snuggled in a motel in Havre de Grace, MD as it pours and howls outside. Driving on I 95 was miserable so we got off and luckily found a motel that allows dogs and has free WiFi right off the bat. Tomorrow is going to be a better day to finish our journey back "home" to Ashland and Bearfoot IV.

Our trip north has been pleasant visiting with various family members from Scarsdale, NY, to Boston, MA and to Albany, NY. We managed to squeeze a lunch in Saratoga, NY with my sister and husband. While in Boston, I discovered two grandson's were visiting with their half Sis and their brother who lives there so we had a great reunion breakfast with the Dempsey gang in Somerville, MA. Ralph had his tests done and has to return to Albany the end of April '07 for more testing. I am not sure how this will all impact our plans for our westward adventure but I trust it will happen when the time is right.

Our new brown leather magic bed sofa awaits us in Ashland, VA and will be installed on Tues. We have eyeglasses to purchase, prescriptions to fill, wills to update, a couple of massages to enjoy and lots of turkey to eat this coming week. My grandson from VA Tech is going to be home for the weekend and since he will not be home for Thanksgiving, I look forward to this visit. He is in the Highty Tighties and they will be playing in the Thanksgiving Day Parade in Philadelphia on the 23rd. Then he is whisked back to campus for the big rivalry game between VA Tech and UVA. No tickets available for that one.

We will be rolling down I 95 on the 24th God willing and the creek don't rise.

Remember, "Life is a journey not a destination".

November 10, 2006

Greetings blog readers who are wondering where I am and why I have not been in touch. I am in Scarsdale, NY visiting family. I have been able to receive your emails while here but not able to return any mail for some reason. We plan to go to the Boston area tomorrow and with any luck, all my replies will go out in one swoop of the cyber key. That is my plan anyway. The weather was very rainy the first day here but temps have been mild and in the 60's. The last two days the sun has shone brightly and although a bit on the cool side, it is still fine. We have been out walking daily. Saw a movie last night in White Plains. It was a very violent movie and resulted in my covering my eyes and ears for much of it. The name of it was the Departed and even though it was filled with famous, some favorite stars, I don't recommend it for the sensitve.

Last weekend I visited VA Tech for parents weekend. Such a beautiful campus! I will attach some photos of the review of the cadets. My grandson was in the band of course and looked wonderful in his full length coat and uniform. I hope to see him before Thanksgiving again back in Virginia. He and the Highty Tighties will be playing in the thanksgiving Day parade in Philly this year. I hope it is televised.

Sebastian is enjoying his visit here since there are two young girls to play with. One of the girls is infatuated with him. She remarked that his new bed was quite comfortable. I would have liked to have caught her in the bed with the camera. She is cute as a button.

We head for Boston tomorrow, Friday. This family has 3 youngsters and a small Westy who Sebastian has met before. He will be a happy pup. I think he sometimes is bored with us two oldsters even though he is not young at 11 years. He has lots of energy.

September 21, 2006

Officially it is autumn. Ralph, Sebastian and I are parked in Ashland, VA . Journeys in and of themselves are always interesting, sometimes challenging and always rewarding even though we may not recognize the rewards for a time. This recent journey from the Thousand Islands was certainly challenging and definitely rewarding. Thanks to my sister and her husband, I was able to move Bearfoot to Hershey, PA. My eye condition has temporarily worsened as it does periodically rendering my driving impossible. They most graciously consented to help me out. The trip down from Syracuse, NY was rainy and foggy over the PA mountains. Ralph and I led our small convoy. Riding shotgun is a new experience for me. I find it quite pleasant actually. It is nice to be able to get up, move around, get drinks and snacks as well as use the head. Don’t get me wrong though, as soon as I can drive again, I will be eager to do so. We attended the Hershey RV show for a few days. While wandering through the many coaches that were there on display, we found one in particular that felt like home to us. It is a new design with the kitchen/dinette in the front. The tv is in the back of the living room mid-ship so to speak. There are two sofas, one on each side, both brown leather, the cabinets are a warm cherry finish – it felt like home. Bearfoot has transformed for the 4th time. “Chapter 4”. We started, Bashey and I, with a fifth wheel trailer, then the Airstream Land Yacht, the Dolphin and now the Monaco Endeavor. Since life is always dynamic and changing , it is quite fitting that our journey as well as our mission should change. I don’t know where this chapter will take us but will certainly keep you posted.

It was not without grief that I left our Dolphin Bearfoot coach. It has been a safe, cozy home for Bashey and me for almost a year. It represented a way of life and independence for me as a mature woman. But in keeping with my philosophy on life, I believe we move along our paths sometimes alone (in my case accompanied by a grand dog) and sometimes with others, either a group as in a family, or with a mate or friend. At this point in my life, having a partner is a joy as well as a comfort for me. I have been molded by Eight years of independence. Adjusting to having a partner is my new challenge as well as a personal goal. The many years as a healer and counselor of others now seems to be turned inward for a time. This is the dance of life – we will learn the steps, there will be times when we step on each others toes in the process but we will dance in beauty.

One bit of news – my lap top has finally died it seems therefore I am using Ralph’s Mac (perhaps that too is symbolic). I haven’t quite gotten it down pat yet but will shortly. Finding inexpensive wireless is the biggest challenge we full timers have. We rely on it to pay our bills, check our bank and credit card balances and communicate with loved ones and friends. Please “bear” with me as I try to place these posts. Pics are also a soon to be possibility since I know all my readers enjoy those. Have a grand autumn day. We will be here until next Thursday and then off to Niagara Falls, NY for a few days of coach check up.

October 31, 2006

Happy Halloween friends! We are happy to be back in Ashland, VA this night when the veils are thin. Since we left Ashland over a month ago, we have experienced a wide range of weather. Sadly most of it has been nasty but the last 3 days in Oriental, NC have been incredibly beautiful and it seems Virginia has been enjoy the the same sunshine and warmth. As we drove up I 95 and entered Virginia, we even found diesel fuel for $2.23. We saw gasoline prices at under $2.00 but I betcha that post election, you will see the fuel prices go back up.


We will be here for a week trying to sell my car, seeing the dentist and catching up with my family then we leave our cozy home to drive to New York to visit with Ralph’s family, Ralph’s cardiologist and my family in Albany. Sebastian will go with us. The coach will stay here plugged into electricity to keep our refrigerator going. We should be back here by the 16th or 17th unless Ralph needs surgery. Thanksgiving will be spent in Montpelier, VA with my family. The day after we are on the road for FL.

This weekend I get to go over to VA Tech for parents weekend to see my grandson. I can’t wait to see him. The Highty Tighties are going to march and play in the Philadelphia Thanksgiving Parade this year. Watch for it on TV.

I was very happy to spend a day in NC with my dear friend, Judi. She came over to our campsite and we shared lunch and good conversation. It was a lovely warm day so we were able to sit outside for awhile. She is an inspiration to many.

Oriental always feels like home. We walked all over town each day and stopped on one of our walks to visit with some old friends. We ended up having dinner togther that night. Our first night there included a pig picking down on the waterfront. We were towards the end of the line and really didn’t have much of a choice of food. It was an experience since many people were in our line with half empty plates going back for seconds. They did not receive a warm welcome in our line. The fishing fleet was in town so the harbor was very picturesque. Lots of new condos there but we didn’t see many people (except at the pig pickin;). There are hundreds of sailboats in Oriental. Actually there are more boats than people. When I lived there back in the 80’s and 90’s, there were only 800 people. Probably a few more now

We came over the great Smokies and were on our way to Orienal when our fancy passenger chair with the recliner and foot rest quit working and it was open blocking our doorway. It appeared there was a short somewhere. Luckily, I have a friend in oriental who is one of the most talented electrical engineers I have ever known. He came over on Monday and within an hour and a half had the short fixed and the chair working again. So much for gadgets.

More later as we loop around the east coast.

October 14, 2006

Today would have been my mom's birthday had she lived. She was quite a gal!

We survived the blizzard here in Niagara Falls/Buffalo. No electricity, food or water for many people. Very difficult situation for many people. We were cozy with our own generator. We have finally gotten the work all done on the coach and will be on the road tomorrow a.m. God willin' and the creek don't rise! That actually could happen since there is a flood warning. Melting snow and heavy rains prevail. I will post some pics of the storm soon. Just haven't gotten them downloaded yet.

Stay well and safe.